So, when a man asks you about your ex, you can politely say, "We are no longer together. If there are things he likes to do that simply don't interest you, be cool with it. If you are going to a cocktail party together, you don't have to be next to him at every moment.It was a great relationship while it lasted, and I learned a lot." That's it.2. Here you are dating a man you really like, and the first couple of weeks are going well. In the beginning, you send him a text that says, "Have a great time tonight! " So then, you lob another text in to him asking "What's going on? " Even though he tells you he's just hanging out with his friends, you proceed to make a major blunder:“You start checking up on him with continuous texts throughout the night. If you see him speaking with some woman at the party, do not immediately run over and start grabbing his hand and giving him a big hug -- and certainly don't do this all night long. Example: A woman will hang out with a guy on the first or second date and say to him, "You have to meet my friends Jenna and Amy.You're dating a man you really like and the first couple weeks are cruising along really well. You start out as the cool woman and send him a text before he goes that says "Have a great time tonight! " You send him another text asking, "What's going on? " Even though he tells you he's just hanging out with his friends, you proceed to make a major blunder and start checking up on him with continuous texts throughout the night." But as the night progresses, seeds of doubt start forming in your mind about what he's doing, and you start to think, "Is he cheating on me? This paranoia will push a man away about as quickly as anything.
" As the night progresses, however, seeds of doubt start forming in your mind about what he's doing, and you start to think "Is he cheating on me? For example, you are out with him when a woman walks by wearing a skimpy short skirt. I can't believe she is going around in public like that! Here is a typical scenario: The guy you're dating looks at you and says, "You really look beautiful tonight! " A man hears this and thinks, "I don't even know you yet. We want to get to know you slowly and learn what you're all about. 249Disclaimer: Every Nairaland member is solely responsible for anything that he/she posts or uploads on Nairaland.
You're planting a seed of doubt in him, causing him to wonder if he should date someone else who's more confident. Here's a typical scenario: The guy you're dating looks at you and says, "You really look beautiful tonight." Ten minutes later you look at him and ask, "How do I look tonight?
" Another typical scenario is where you tell a guy you really like him, to which he responds by smiling and giving you a nice little hug and kiss.
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The truth is there are certain things that women can do that will scare men away every single time.