They are depressed because no guy they like actually likes them. Women care about looks, but they care about looks much less than men.
They are depressed because they can’t go do the activities they want to or fit into a beautiful dress. If every one of these girls made it their number one priority to lose weight, not only would they be happier, but society would be happier. To know exactly how important looks, personality and money are to women check out: Understanding Sexual Attraction: What Makes A Woman Want You.
The way the current trend is heading, what will dating be like in 2030, and will that be a better or worse time to be on the dating market than 1995? I think the term “online dating” is part of the problem and makes people who don’t know much about it think it refers to people forming entire relationships online and only meeting in person much later.
Simply considered as online meeting people, it makes a ton of sense.
Growing up I remember countless instances of looking at a fat girl and thinking, wow she has a really cute face, if she were skinny she would have guys all over her. When a girl is fat, she is no longer attractive to 99.9% of men.
After traveling the world and seeing places with very few fat girls, I came to the realization that… While traveling in countries with low obesity rates I noticed that hot girls were much easier to obtain and were much less bitchy. This means that the only guys chasing after her are the mythical “chubby chasers” or lower value guys (that don’t really want them, but are out of options.) This means that 99.9% of men are desiring a now dwindling percentage of skinny girls.
And for people who have no interest in serious dating and just want to find people to hook up with?
Over 40 million Americans have given online dating a try, and over a of the American couples married between 20 met online.
Now from those skinny girls there is a percentage that aren’t hot.
So 99.9% of guys are now desiring an even smaller percentage of women.
But is this a positive development or something to be concerned about?
Is online dating making the world better and dating more effective, or is something important being lost or sacrificed as a result?