I'm not into anal myself and doing anal with him turns me off. He's suggesting that I play with his ass or we go our separate ways. I don't want to inflict a lot of pain, but seeing her over my lap with a bit of pink on her ass is the hottest thing in the world to me.Over the course of the 2.5 years he's become very frustrated. My wife indulged me once—it was incredibly hot for me, but she found it degrading and refuses to do it again.
My advice: stop having sex with your wife so long as you're seeking out men in bathhouses.I suspect your wife is only fucking you once a month to keep you from straying (which you're already doing) because she believes—incorrectly—that if you aren't getting sex at home, COME, you'll leave her to go get sex.That's obviously not the case—you're getting sex elsewhere without her knowledge (or her consent and putting her at risk in the process) and you aren't leaving.Just before my mother died she confided in me about an affair she'd had and asked me to retrieve and destroy some letters and cards, which I did.I've had three screaming fights with my dad about monogamy in the last two weeks. Son Blows Friend, Dad Blows Gasket No, SBFDBG, you can't.