So don’t take it negatively if he gives you a word of advice once in a while.Listen to it and then decide for yourself whether or not you’d like to pay heed to it.If you can’t find common ground, it may be best to let this one go.I’m sure it’s not fun for him to hear you whine about how you’ve “crossed over to the dark side” on your 25th birthday when he’s already in the next decade.Yes, it’s nice when men take care of their women and he will.
At the same time, go out of your comfort zone to try things he likes once in a while and give him a glimpse of your world once in a while.
You’re in a relationship with him and that means you are equals.
Stop expecting him to be your knight in shining armour and rescue you from every little problem.
If you don’t, look at it as a learning experience and move on.
Some guys just come to this realization sooner than others *cough**cough*.5. Thanks to the patriarchy, women learn to master blow jobs early in their sexual lives (sometimes before they even lose their virginity) but guys typically don't figure out that women want their vulvas licked until their mid-20s.